I don’t want to come across as vain, but I do consider myself a remarkable woman. Those who know me often describe me as intelligent, witty, and highly creative. I’m 72 years old and retired, having spent most of my career in retail and customer service—fields that suited me because of my natural compassion and deep empathy. Helping others isn’t just what I’ve done; it’s part of who I am.

I’ve had five serious relationships within Red Light Center. Each one brought joy, but also heartache. None ended because I walked away—every time, it was he who left. I’ve learned that while Red Light Center invites people to be who they want to be, not everyone is ready to accept the truths we carry from our real lives. In past relationships, I’ve sometimes held back out of fear that my full truth wouldn’t be welcomed. But if you’re reading this now, I hope you’ll take the time to explore My Gender Journey, and see the full scope of who I am.

I call myself a woman because I am a woman. Legally, emotionally, and in the life I live each day. I am not perfect—but I am proud. I have walked through fire to become the person I am, and I carry that strength with grace. If you’re curious, open-minded, and drawn to real connection, I hope you’ll get to know me beyond the surface.

A Note About My Profile Picture

In Red Light Center, I go by the name Veronica Sunshine—and the woman you see in my profile picture represents her. These images are not of me as I am, but as I envision myself: the woman I would love to be. If you’re curious about the real me, you’ll find a folder titled Younger Me, which includes photos taken about twenty years ago. Sharing both sides—my reality and my dream—is just one more way I try to live with honesty and heart.

I’ve known heartache here on Red Light Center—not because of who I am in this world, but because of how others have responded to who I am in real life. What I long for now is a man who can read My Gender Journey and respond not with doubt or dismissal, but with appreciation—for the honesty, and maybe even admiration for the courage. I’m not looking for flings or fantasies. I live a quiet, sometimes lonely life in the offline world, and I come here in search of connection, comfort, and companionship in a place where I feel seen.

I’m seeking a man who values trust, who understands that real intimacy starts with good conversation. Someone who will meet me with kindness, not judgment. I have no secrets—I’ll answer any question asked with sincerity. But I’m not here to dwell on real-world details. What I hope to build is a relationship grounded in presence here, in this world we share. I’ve said that I consider myself a remarkable woman. What I’m looking for is a man who can match that with his own quiet strength, authenticity, and willingness to connect.

There is no checklist. But if there were one, it would begin and end with this: Can we talk? Can we dance and laugh and share without rushing to the next private moment? I tend to prefer men around my age, because shared life experience adds depth—but I’m open to anyone who brings sincerity and maturity. If you’re someone who listens, who shares, and who knows how rare a true bond can be, then you may be the man I’ve been hoping to find.

Final Note